Ollie Desalvo: well, it eventually will mess up your relationship. If he is taking the online thing to seriously and is meeting these women, there will be a problem.
Frederic Engellant: I have NO information about his online relationships and no reason to think anything suspect is going on. I was just wondering how and if you ever bring up the topic since it is a new twist in friendships and love relationships.
Florencio Dingle: My husband and I haven't had any issues related to online friendships. I think, if you need to find a "delicate", special way to "bring up" this topic, there is more to the problem than simply having online friendships. Normally, the topics of outside friendships or balancing friendships and family get brought up naturally in the normal course of the relationship; you don't need to sit down and have "the talk" or anything. My husband and I discuss people we talk to throughout the day (online or off); I usually tell him about as much a! s I think he would be interested in; in turn, he spares me the details of the interactions he's having on RV and computer forums. It's a non-issue between us, an we never needed to specifically bring it up. If there is a problem, then you'd bring it up as you would any problem - talk to the person, be direct, tell him/her what bothers you, discuss it.P.S. I know I said "you", but I meant just generally "a person", not you specifically....Show more
Carmina Stickney: You bring up some very interesting and important questions. The internet has changed the social landscape in so many profound ways.Each situation is different. If you are uncomfortable with your partner's online relationships, you need to talk to him or her about that. Establish mutually acceptable rules of engagement.The relationship should be stronger than any threat posed by new technologies, or it isn't worth much in the first place....Show more
Riley Migl: if this bothers you and your married th! is has to stop today. There only room for one wife.
Doni! ta Desjardin: I don't think you have to cut ties with friends of the opposite gender just because you get married. I do think that you have to be open with and respectful to your spouse regarding these friendships. Most importantly, these friends need to be respectful of your relationship. My husband and I had some problems with single female friends of his who didn't respect our relationship. They'd purposely not include me in invitations and conversations. He made it VERY clear to them that any place that was not welcoming to me was not a place that he'd care to be. These so-called 'friends' don't call or email anymore - nor do they even visit the places we hang out. As long as your partner is open with you and defends your relationship, there should be no problem with having friends of the opposite gender....Show more
Shon Almquist: I agree with queen bee.
Alisia Sutphen: My husband doesn't use the internet - he, in fact, can't stand it - says it's a waste of! time.I only go on to check email from my mom and aunt, and to tool around. I'm not on here to make friends.So it doesn't affect us one bit....Show more
Johnnie Pummill: I have NO information about his online relationships and no reason to think anything suspect is going on. I was just wondering how and if you ever bring up the topic since it is a new twist in friendships and love relationships.
Caroyln Ebach: If it bothers you that your significant other has a lot of contacts of the opposite sex, especially ones that bother you, the best thing is just to be open and honest about the situation to uncover any and all truth. If your significant other cares for you and sees how much it bothers you then it should not be a problem to cut the ties to any/all of the contacts in question.This happened with my fiancee and me when we got serious after dating.Best answer: communicate!...Show more
Stormy Beliard: Ask him if he has any. I talk to people on line both ! male and female. I am a happily married woman and it is only talk. We d! on't cross the line and I never would. Talking to people, especially people that you don't meet, does not always lead to cheating. If you have to keep a person from talking to people or from seeing people then they are going to cheat anyway.
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